How to Break Up with
Your Inner
Mean Girl
(it’s not You, it’s her, it’s definitely her)
free workshop
Friday August 8th @ 11a PT
leave that inner mean girl on read
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Imagine this….
You finish the deck, hit send, and shut your laptop without a second thought.
You walk into the kitchen, pour a glass of wine, and blast that Beyoncé song—the one that makes you feel unstoppable.
No spiraling. No catastrophizing. Just you, vibing because you did the damn thing.
Your boss says “nice work,” and you say “thank you”
You don’t point out how it could have been better. You let it be good.
You go to bed early and sleep like a rock.
The next morning, you go into the big meeting relaxed.
You speak off the cuff—confident, unfiltered, unbothered.
And when someone says “You did great,” you don't deflect or try to sound humble.
You know you nailed it.
You soak in the recognition of your work.
And now? You’re onto the next goal - confident, grounded and fully visible.
Because you know you deserve the spotlight.
You are unapologetically stepping into your fullest potential.
But this is what’s happening now…
You work until 10p tweaking one slide.
You struggle to get to sleep — and then wake up panicked about slide 7 at 3:00a.
In the meeting you're distracted, busy scanning for clues about what people really think.
Your boss says “Great job" and you point out what could’ve been better (just in case they were thinking it).
You take an inventory of errors and make comprehensive mental notes: Don’t let that happen next time.
You want visibility but only if the work is flawless
You want recognition but only if your inner mean girl says you’ve earned it
(Spoiler: she never does.)
So you minimize.
You deflect and downplay.
You hand off the mic to Chad.
Because if your inner mean girl isn’t impressed, how could anyone else be?
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step 1: Register for the masterclass
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step 2: Join the Slack community
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step 3: Subscribe to our calendar
Here’s what needs to happen…
You need to stop treating your inner mean girl like she’s helping.
She’s not keeping you sharp.
She’s keeping you from your full potential.
She’s the one who won't let you win.
She’s the one making you second-guess your instincts and downplay your brilliance.
You need to start:
Trusting your own judgment without running it through a what if gauntlet
Feeling genuinely proud of your work and celebrating it without caveats, conditions, or mental footnotes
Showing up bigger, bolder, and more at ease because you’re not wasting energy policing yourself
Working hard because you want to not because you're trying to outrun that voice that says you're still not enough
✨ Exactly how your inner critic is robbing you of visibility at work
✨ Step-by-step how to turn your inner mean girl into your inner hype woman
✨ Quick and easy daily practices to rewrite the mean girl soundtrack
You don’t need to do or be anything more.
You need to stop letting that voice define what counts as “enough.”Because when she stops incessantly evaluating you like a CSI investigation,
you actually fuel your momentum.You unapologetically step into the spotlight.
You believe the praise.
You take the win.
You stop waiting for recognition and start expecting it.